There is no duty to satisfy or enlighten others. The only duty is to oneself, to always be true and kind no matter what others said or did. Do not explain. There is no need to explain. No one really cares what is right and what is wrong. Most of them just hold the attitude of watching a show, the show you do not need to be part of it. Too many people in this world are good at playacting, turning back into white. It does not matter. Let them play.